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Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by Cheese Sandwich on Fri Feb 21, 2014 12:41 am


HIYA PONIES! Cheesy here! and im just having a tiny bit of trouble! you see! im a rather shy pony! i only open up to my bestest of best friend! and i just wanna be myself! BUT im shyish! so... i dont express myself like i want to! I was just wondering if any of you ponies have some advice for being less shy? liiiike maybe a story? or advice? or tips? or tricks? or brooms? or question? any of those would help me greatly! THANK YOU ALLLLLL SOOOOO MUCH! *hugs*


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Re: Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by Entarasu on Fri Feb 21, 2014 2:30 am

Dear Super Duper Party Pony,

Shyness is a very hard thing to overcome, and is something I personally deal with rather frequently and very often. Shyness is centralized around the fear of what others will think or do in reaction to who you are, your physical appearance, mannerisms, beliefs you have, or any other aspect of yourself. The more things you fear sharing, the stronger the shyness will appear within your life.

Now as for curing shyness or dissolving it, I am afraid there is no answer to that, but what you can do, is work on the fear aspect related to the cause of shyness. Find close friends, and just view them as another pony, see if the shyness persists. Try viewing other ponies as someone close to you, helping to break the ice (That's how Pinkie does it, everyone is her friend, thus she has so very little fear of how they will react, for true friends wont judge on these things).

Alternatively, you can just view life as a beautiful place, wonderful as it is, knowing you are you, and no matter what anypony else thinks, nothing will change that. You have your own personal close friends, ponies you care for, and happiness is and will be derived from within yourself and the things or ponies you hold closest to you. This way, it matters not what others think, and you can just be you around anypony you meet, no matter how new they are.

Lastly, you can always work with someone close to learn to face your fears, and tackle your shyness head on. This is quite obviously the most scary approach, but can be an effective one if handled with care.

So no matter what method you choose, be it conquering your fear, dissolving it with love, beauty, and tranquility, or facing it head on, or any combination of the three, I know everything will be just fine. You are a wonderful pony. I saw it in you as Pinkie Pie, and I still see it within you. I know it will be scary, so don't push yourself. Take small steps as needed. Just be comfortable and slowly open up as you blast through your shyness.

As I said, it will be hard, and shyness is something even I encounter from time to time, so it is not something that is easily shakeable. I know you will do great. Until next time Cheese Sandwich, with love and kindness, I wish you the best of luck.


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Re: Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by CrescentStar{Digi} on Fri Feb 21, 2014 3:42 am

I guess things around here are going to get.... cheesy. *Puts sunglasses on.*
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Re: Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by Entarasu on Fri Feb 21, 2014 5:13 am

CrescentStar{Digi} wrote:I guess things around here are going to get.... cheesy. *Puts sunglasses on.*

*Punglasses


lol
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Re: Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by Cheese Sandwich on Fri Feb 21, 2014 7:22 am

*giggles* alright thanks ^-^

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Re: Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by KrazyDashie on Fri Feb 21, 2014 11:26 am

CrescentStar{Digi} wrote:I guess things around here are going to get.... cheesy. *Puts sunglasses on.*

that was a cheesy joke.

... >.< *seen what she did there*

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Re: Post #96 Chains of shyness

Post by Cheese Sandwich on Fri Feb 21, 2014 3:59 pm

>.< wow dashie that was the cheesest thing you have ever said ^-^ SPEAKING OFFFFF they where selling cheese sandwiches at school today ^-^

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